Tantra , Sex and Bodywork Chicago !

It's true , in Chicago , many life changing , enjoyable and healthy eastern practices have taken longer to trickle across the continent towards Chicago or any major cities in the midwest .      Not so many years ago it was rare to see someone carrying a yoga mat , or passing a wellness center offering Reiki , acupuncture or many other amazing  (now widely embraced ) additions to our present day lives .       I remember when I would attend my ballet lessons downtown and our class was held right next to a rare, but hip yoga studio. Nowadays , these are entirely common sights as we have welcomed the life improvements these practices have offered us .                            Sadly it is still true that tantric sex experts , tantra spiritual instructors and tantra bodywork practitioners , are comparable to where these amazing eastern routines were even ten years ago here.                                                                                                 Let's just say it is very difficult to find !                                                                                         It seems strange , edgy , mysterious and still  fairly misunderstood . However it is a relief to see that is  beginning to break into the mainstream. Employing a  combination of yoga , focus and proper breathing techniques , tantric sex and body worship is the ultimate experience by far ! Novices and experts alike find it to be much wilder, more exciting and much less predictable than anything ever offered . I am thrilled to be able to combine all of my favorite practices rolled into one for the ultimate experience . Besides the amazing relaxation value , you can learn how to harness your sexual , spiritual , physical and emotional attributes for total and continuing bliss !      Imagine sharing this experience with a partner that is on that level already and can teach you the steps to attain this for yourself ? !   If you practice with your partner or alone (yes you can do this alone ), this unique practice is both heavenly and life changing . For me, Tantra is an invaluable tool with unlimited benefits for all to use and enjoy !      Some , but not all tantric instructors include sexuality as a path toward expanding ones selfIn my practice , I incorporate bodywork (body worship) , energy work , breathing and sexuality . Every year cancer is on the rise , as are heart disease and other major illnesses. Even in history , when life was much more difficult and many societies experienced malnutrition , there were in fact , far less disease and fewer types of serious disease that we now know of. One of the main reasons is thought to be because sex and it's numerous benefits, as it was not shameful and hidden the way it is now. It was just a beautiful , enriching , natural experience.  Our bodies would not be designed to experience so much pleasure if it was something bad (and let me share we have only touched the tip of the iceberg of how much bliss we can experience).  I am of the thought that God would not create our bodies in a way that we are able to experience such pleasure , then tell us that it is bad to enjoy these very same pleasures .  If we were meant to merely have sex for reproduction then , like animals , we would only be aroused and active once us ladies became fertile ~ which is ridiculous , of course ! I  , as your guide , happily lead your body , mind , spirit and emotions into healthy and balanced harmony .

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I will expound soon on the various types of tantra that I practice with you very special and lucky man ! xox 

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Are you having a Valentine's Day Dilemma ?

Well according to this New York Post's Valentine's Day article , the writer has solved our predicament ! Phew and thank you !

So whether you are single , in a relationship or married , the best gift for a happy Valentine’s Day seems to be this .

Give to each other with open hearts ! http://goo.gl/0qSbTa

If that doesn't work for you , I invite you to spend some of this day with me !

I'll figure it out for the two of us...

Goodbye M.I.R !

What I am referring to is Mercury in Retrograde . A somewhat planetary phenomenon that occurs about three times a year and lasts around three weeks each occurrence.

Why in the heck would I write about this in my blog ?

I know , it's not very sexy or essential to fun escapades with me . Or is it ? I have several friends that are very interested in astrology , which is initially how I first heard of Mercury in retrograde or mir , as it is commonly called in those circles . Since I prefer to occasionally lean towards the science side of life and what not , I researched a bit online ( I did a quick google search , I'll be honest ) and found references to it in the Farmer's Almanac .

What I found did surprise me as I have more than experienced many of the manifestations believed to be as a result of this "planetary shift" . I quote here and perhaps you may have noticed some or maybe all of these in abundance the last 2.5 weeks or so ,lol.

"The planet Mercury rules communication, travel, contracts, automobiles, and such. So, when Mercury is retrograde, remain flexible, allow time for extra travel, and avoid signing contracts. Review projects and plans at these times, but wait until Mercury is direct again to make any final decisions.

About a week or two before Mercury retrogrades, finish any tasks or projects at hand. You can’t stop your life, but plan ahead, have back-up plans, and be prepared for angrier people and miscommunication."

Particularly strange email communications and angrier ones at that , have been my burden to bear !
Haha , so if this has been your experiences of late , be encouraged . This solar anomaly will be returning back to it's "normal" as of October 9 (tomorrow) . And we can all skip together in harmony once again .

Lustfully yours xoxox

Tantra of many flavors.. :-)

I always hesitate for many reasons to write about personal experiences here so I have sprinkled them with some fiction in order to maintain complete discretion and what the heck , give LE something fun and dramatic to read ! See , I'm thoughtful this way. :D I met a very interesting gentleman this week and after quite a bit of chatting (sorry , you are really funny!) , I learned some things about myself and my business . So I thought why not bring the subject here , I tend to be pretty upfront and forthcoming anyway..lol . He is a very experienced world traveler and as such has had opportunities abroad and stateside to experience tantra of many flavors , I will call it . I asked in general , I do not breach personal boundaries unless invited , if he would share some things he has experienced . I am a curious lass.. So he did . Firstly , he was waiting by the glass window of the lobby to watch me approach , to check if I was the woman in the ads. I spotted him and hugged him and immediately loved his physique . I am statuesque and with heels , I am over 6' . Yet , I still had to reach up to embrace his shoulders . Hmm , I'm 'girl squealing' inside with delight . We head to his suite after a few seconds of chatting , only to discover there is no mini bar in the suite ..huh ? Anyway , he goes through great lengths to get us beverages which I am starting to feel pangs of guilt him going through all of that . I don't want to be a difficult guest ,quite the contrary . I could have easily grabbed libations along my way to his hotel . He then told that he would not have gone beyond the hotel entry had he not approved of me and would have sent me away with a "consolation" fee .

When he shared that I was very happy to hear that I passed inspection and felt extremely flattered that he went through so much hassle to get me a cocktail ...thank you!!!.. warm fuzzies.. :D

I do hear on occasion that men have had horrible bait and switch encounters with providers or old pics or very air-brushed likenesses , that were not likenesses at all.. It thrills me to no end that my usual response is positive as I do go through lengthy measures to reassure my potential clients that I am who I say I am and that you should at the very least have a pretty great time in my care and company .

Also he was secretly assessing my tantra know-how as he had had numerous tantric experiences and many of them legit . Yay! That doesn't frighten me whatsoever as I am extremely confident in my skills , passion and training . And I have an abundant arsenal of moves that seem to be unique to me . I take tantra very seriously and passionately and am completely delighted when I can delight you. But even beyond that , help you to venture into a completely new and body trembling experience over and over again!

P.S. Next he did comment on some of my past blog posts that he felt came across snarky/bitchy and that really , truly made me sad , but I am very grateful for his feedback. I am very kind and sweet to every person that comes through my door and you will unlikely find anyone to say anything different . I probably can remove the "good client" posts and others like it as only "good clients " or potential good clients read them and I do not want to give an incorrect impression.

The delicate question,Is it ED?

Of late , I've had several men share with me their concern that their , ahem , "Little General" hasn't quite been himself lately.

As hard as that may have been to share with me , a tantrika , who is very comfortable with the male body , it's  functions and otherwise..there may be many more men who don't feel secure enough to share concerns with me . I will attempt to dispel rumors , myths and hopefully your fears in regard to this extremely important subject to every breathing male. 

Men can be their toughest critics when it comes to their performance 'in between the sheets'. The unsettling fear of not being able to rise to the occasion can become a recurring nightmare for men that is often equated with failure , loss of dignity and masculinity. If you suffer from some amount of erectile dysfunction (ED) , cut yourself some slack ! Improvement can be achieved with simple steps and also ,without having to rely on Cialis or other risky medications . So , whether you presently suffer from ED , or just seek tips to prevent it , here are some simple ways to beat impotence without the risk of side effects of medications.

1. Take the time to obtain relief from your stressors , career , home , whatever they may be and scheduling  regular body massages . The relaxation benefit is not just tremendously benficial overall physically and emotionally , it is goes even deeper than many of you are aware .For instance, the release of pleasure chemicals in the brain , seratonin , endorphins , dopamine and oxytocin  , improved circulation and oxygenation of your red blood cells all have a positive impact on your sexual organs as well !

This 'relaxation response' significantly decreases the effects of stress and reduces the risks associated with stress which could be sexual dysfunction , hypertension , heart arrhythmias , anxiety, insomnia , persistent fatigue , digestive disorders and some psychological issues- just to name a few !  All this with a massage !

2.Which also brings me to the next point , simple exercise. Many men will walk all over God's green earth in order to boost their sexual performance and enhance their sex life . Luckily men , that is often all you have to do ....Walk , not necessarily run  20-30 minutes , optimally up to 2 miles a day . Work on doing this for yourself 3-5 times weekly.

This , plus other simple ,  healthier lifestyle practices can help also overweight men reduce their risk  , or even “reverse” current symptoms , according to a study done in 2005.
Since maintaining a trim waistline is a good defense for ED, as men with a 42-inch waist are 50 percent more likely to have ED than those with a 32-inch waist. Getting to a healthy weight and maintaining it is a just one good strategy for preventing and treating ED.

3. Also , Move Your Nether Regions

The phrase 'use it before you lose it' can be applied here. Pelvic exercises , more commonly known as kegel exercises, are used to promote urinary continence as well as optimum sexual health. These simple exercises help to strengthen the bulbocavernosus muscle,(try saying that 3 times quickly) which does three things: allows the penis to engorge with blood during erection, pumps during ejaculation and helps to empty the urethra after urination.In case you have never done these ,here is how you perform them:during urination you stop the flow -more than once- if you seek to strengthen this muscle more quickly.

In that same 2005 study, three months of twice-daily sets of kegel exercises combined with biofeedback lifestyle changes, such as quitting smoking, losing weight, and cutting back on sugar and alcohol..Don't beat yourself up if you are not able to do all of these things at once. Any reduction/healthy practices will be great!

4. Get Needled

The art of acupuncture has been used for everything from back pain, depression, and even of course , ED. In most cases acupuncture may help and is a great alternate option instead of medication in my opinion. Through this alternative , relatively painless therapy, needles are strategically and carefully placed in various parts of the body for pain relief or stress relief and is believed to promote an open flow of energy . Although there are many mixed studies for acupuncture and ED, many tend to confirm positive results. A 1999 study found acupuncture improved the quality of erection and even restored sexual activity in participants.

5. Take 'Herbal Viagra'?

Ginseng, specifically “red ginseng,” has been called “herbal Viagra” that helps puts to rest men’s bedroom woes. Red ginseng is when the root has been steamed and then dried. The ginseng root is the part of the plant that is mostly used as a natural remedy when in its supplement form.

In a 2008 review, seven studies on red ginseng and ED, ranging in dosages from 600 to 1,000 milligrams three times a day, were found to prove the effectiveness of the herb in ED treatment. There is a well written article to other natural supplements that I have personally witnessed as very effective! Of course I always recommend discussing with your doctor to be safe. http://goo.gl/3emvl5

And one other that was not covered in the above linked article...

6. Drink Watermelon Juice A cold slice of watermelon can do more than just satisfy thirst and hunger during the warm summer months; it can help with bedroom satisfaction. Citrulline, the amino acid found in high concentrations of watermelon, is found to directly improve blood flow to the penis. A 2011 study revealed men who suffered from mild to moderate ED and took L-citrulline supplementation showed an improvement with their erectile function and were very satisfied. Natural watermelon juice, can also be easier on the stomach, since a side effect of taking pills like Viagra can cause nausea and diarrhea.

So there you have it gents ! You are now hopefully armed with some knowledge and tools to improve your vitality and likely more fun in your life !

Now let's get those massages scheduled!!! Lustfully , Marina

Oh Hello Houston !!

I have to start out by saying that I have been meeting the most impressive men...I am astonished by the qualities of kindness and generosity that you gentlemen have shown to me . I mean it with all of my heart when I express this , thank you !! Ok , so now on to my sexy , fun story..

   As you may already have been reading , I do enjoy playing the part of the vixen....simply put , I have been one since adolescence , so technically , I guess I am not "playing".. I suddenly ran across an incredible deal to fly to Houston ..and after struggling with the decision to go , bought the tickets , booked my room , reserved my transport and was soon on my way , sight unseen and slightly nervous..I posted a couple of ads in Houston and had one response that intrigued me . I am oh so very titillated when a gentleman displays manners and excellent grammar . It denotes intelligence.. and men , I can scarcely resist that !! He had written me before I left for my trip and as our details , etc. went back and forth , I could sense a real connection beginning to form . That only adds to my growing excitement and slight anxiety .. so after confirming my arrival day to town , we set up a date for the following evening ..
I had to devote some time with family during the day , but our impending date was very much on the front of my mind and I picked up several items during the day to have for my elicit evening partner .. I was really becoming excited and anticipating a fun night ahead as our emails began to pick up some serious steam ... meow , was I getting aroused , he had quite a way with words , without being too wordy ! (***Please let me clarify , I normally do not have a lot of time to email back and forth , however , I was away and he was inquiring as to what my favorite stores were , lingerie preferences , sizes , types of cuisines I preferred and favorite champagnes~he was shopping for gifts for me as well as planning our evening out ! These kinds of emails , a girl always will endeavor to answer !****)
Ok , so it's time to dress , I go with the nude colored clingy , short tank dress with the sexy cuban heel thigh highs..

A pic says it all!

Ready to meet my date in the lounge . It's so pretty and romantic and I cannot wait . Even though , I really didn't have a clear idea of what my gentleman looked like , I spotted him walking in right away . He was beautifully dressed in an elegant grey suit , well groomed , grinning from ear to ear (my favorite accessory~a smile) and carrying two large Nordstrom's shopping bags .. I was so stunned and delighted and when we greeted and kissed hello , it was as though we were already well acquainted .. So sweet ! We sat closely and began conversing and laughing , hardly noticing the polite waitress waiting to take our drink orders . :)
I will tell you , I scarcely remember the lovely meal we shared and in fact recall , getting drinks to go and heading back up to my room ... Wow !! , is all I will tell you , in fact , so "wow" we agreed to meet again for the next evening for a repeat , lol ... I really love Houston !!! Thank you , E and I cannot wait until next time ! XXXX